Somehow, it’s never so much about ‘How’ to change what one may feel as an illegitimate limit to one’s freedom & happiness, than ‘what’ changes within reach exactly are susceptible – at a given time upon one’s lifetime – to grant respite &/or relief, once they’re achieved. Determining one’s reach obviously requires knowing one’s ‘geometry’ (i.e. oneself = embracing one’s fortes as well as shortcomings).
This is even more true should these changes being considered for implementation on very aspects of one’s own persona:
- If you’re going to nail a shelf in your room, you’d better know where its walls do actually stand, & preferably with some degree of precision…
…be it merely for your own nails’s sake !!